Someday I'll actually remember that I do quotes on Tuesdays. Here it is, from the Manly Man article:
Men being more concerned about how they look than how dependable they are, says Carolyn Graglia, is a sign of the times.
"So many men are like that -- so narcissistic, so self-centered. They are really afraid of growing up," she says. "To me, a man who would look down on [being manly] isn't a real man and isn't in touch with the real things in life.